Sending Invitations
When you’re ready to reach your guests, Dear makes sending invitations straightforward. You can send immediately or schedule for later.
Before You Send
Before creating your first send, ensure you have:
Added attendees - You need at least one attendee with a valid email address
Completed event details - Fill in dates, times, venue, etc.
Previewed your message type - Check how it will look to guests
Purchased the template - Or have an active subscription
If your event is still in draft status, creating a send will automatically publish it.
Creating a Send
Step 1: Navigate to the Message Type
Go to My Events and select your event
Click on the message type you want to send (e.g., Invitation)
Scroll down to the Scheduled Sends section
Step 2: Schedule the Send
Click Schedule Send
If any event fields are blank, you’ll see a warning - you can continue or edit first
Choose your send settings:
Date - When to send
Time - What time to send (in your timezone)
Recipients - Which attendees should receive this message
Click Schedule Send
Step 3: Confirm and Publish
If your event is in draft status, you’ll see a notice that scheduling will publish your event. This makes your invitation accessible to attendees when they click through.
Sending Immediately
If you want to send right away instead of scheduling:
Schedule a send for any future date/time
View the scheduled send by clicking on it
Click Send Now
Confirm you want to send immediately
The message will be dispatched to all selected recipients right away.
Choosing Recipients
When scheduling a send, you choose which attendees receive the message:
Select All
Click the checkbox at the top to select everyone
Use for your initial invitation send
Select Specific Attendees
Check individual attendees from the list
Use for reminders (only those who haven’t responded)
Use when adding new guests to an existing event
Create New Attendees
Click Create Attendees while scheduling
Add new guests on the spot
They’ll be automatically selected as recipients
Understanding Send Status
After scheduling or sending, you’ll see the status in your sends list:
Status | Meaning |
|---|---|
Scheduled | Queued to send at the specified time |
Sent | Successfully delivered to recipients |
Sent with failures | Most delivered, some had issues |
Failed | Could not deliver to any recipients |
Click on any send to see detailed information about each recipient.
Viewing Send Details
For each send, you can see:
Scheduled time - When it was/will be sent
Sent time - When it actually went out
Recipients - Who received (or will receive) this send
Status per recipient - Sent, failed, or skipped for each attendee
Recipient Statuses
Sent - Successfully delivered
Failed - Could not deliver (see error message)
Skipped - Not sent (usually example/test email domains)
Editing or Cancelling a Scheduled Send
For sends that haven’t gone out yet:
To Edit:
Click on the scheduled send
Click the Edit action
Change the date, time, or recipients
Save your changes
To Cancel:
Click on the scheduled send
Click Delete
Confirm the cancellation
Multiple Sends
You can schedule multiple sends of the same message type. This is useful when:
Adding guests after the initial send
Sending reminders to non-responders
Staggering sends for a large guest list
Each send tracks its own recipients and delivery status separately. For example, you might send your Invitation to your original guest list, then create another send of the same Invitation for guests you add later.
Template Purchase Required
If you haven’t purchased the template (or don’t have an active subscription), clicking Schedule Send will prompt you to purchase first. You’ll choose an event size and complete checkout before being able to send.
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